Q:Crazy facial hair gains bro. Peepin that goatee coming in strong
You already know brah!
Thanks for peepin’ I’m pretty proud of it so far LOL
Q:Facial hair update!
It is long overdue! I’m actually editing a video right now, so you’ll see more soon. For now, here’s a poorly taken picture
(I shave my mustache daily)
Q:Hi tim, Im just curious as to if your tattoo on your forearm prevented you from getting any part time jobs? Do you ever regret getting it on your forearm?
Hey man, thanks for the question
My forearm tattoo has not prevented me from getting any jobs. When I got a part time job as a promoter, (which deals with interacting with masses of people) it didn’t interfere at all.
And now working full time at Chipotle, it still has no interference.
If it were something negative, or derogatory, or “bad” then yes, it would make a huge difference in my job searching outcomes. But it’s just a simple Polynesian tribal design
And just recently, I got some parts coloured in black, so it’s more visible and noticeable but it has yet to impact my job or professionalism.
I don’t regret getting it on my forearm. To be honest, it was an impulse tattoo LOL. I got it a few weeks before a job interview, though it would have been best to have waited, and if it had hindered my chances on getting hired, then of course it would have been my fault.
Q:Hey buddy, just wondering if you masturbate? Sorry if this is too personal but I feel like masturbating has been slowing down my changes from T. I've been on T for over five months now and my voice is still not quite passing yet. Any clue?
I do masturbate, almost everyday LOL. I literally can’t control myself. Ever since starting T, my sex drive has been through the roof.
Masturbating shouldn’t effect your changes on T at all
Have you checked your T levels with your doctor? Your T levels could still be kinda low and that could contribute to your voice not being as deep as it should by now
In my dream last night I dreamt that I was at my friends house and slept over etc then I had to leave the next morning so I had to get dressed and stuff
I literally started panicking because I couldn’t find my binder
I looked all over her house and I couldn’t find it. I was so scared omg
When I sleep over friends’ house, I never take off my binder but idk why in my dream I did
But yeah wow that sucked a lot LOL
Q:How do therapists determine if you have GID? Can you tell me more about what happens during a therapy session?
He basically asked me how did I feel
like idk like I just told him everything really. How it all started, how I ‘knew’ I was transgender, my dysphorias and insecurities and id feel uncomfortable in certain situations such as speaking in public because I had a girly voice
It’s really a one-on-one, face-to-face talk.
He gives me a paper that has like a kind of check list and i fill that out. There are questions like ‘when was the last time you consumed alcohol…have you used any testosterone enhancing herbs…when was the last time you smoked…etc etc’
I showed all the characteristics of having GID
I’m sorry I don’t know how to explain this very well :/
Q:Hi Tim, what was your process on getting T? Did you have to see a therapist? If so, for how long?
I went to Fenway Health centre which is like a one stop shop for the LGBT community. They have a pharmacy, dentist, doctors, therapists even things like acupuncture therapy and message!
But yeah I made an appointment to speak with a therapist there and after we spoke what he did was meet with a team of doctors to determine if I have GID and whether or not an if I can start T
Thhheeeeennn I met with my doctor and talked about stuff
I don’t remember if I started T the same day I talked to my doctor or not. If I didn’t then it was very shortly after
Then it’s all history! I’m currently just over 6 months on T and I’m as happy as can be
Q:are you scared of the worms and roaches you're raising? they creep me out!!
I use to be terrified LOL
But I got use to them. I can handle them and grab them but if they crawl on me I freak out LOL
Q:Aw haha that's cute :P I've only been to Buffalo, NY like 10 years ago. My friend's mom drove us and we just went to an outlet mall for the entire day. We were all wearing as many layers as possible to cross the border on our way back so we wouldn't have to declare any purchases & get taxed LOL I can tell you my name but I have a rather unique name so I dont want anyone figuring out who I've been talking about haha. How can I tell you privately? I don't have a tumblr acc, maybe I should make 1?
Omg you get taxed if you bring things back? What if I bring things back to america does it tax me too???? LOL
Omg yes make one! So like when I want to talk to you, I can just talk to you directly and not be like “to that canada anon” LOL
Q:We have a lot of mutual friends so I'm bound to see her around, but she'll always just be a casual friend to me now. Aww it's too bad you're not coming! Have you ever been to Canada before? Let me know if you ever do come over, I'll be happy to show you around! :)
That’s such a shame. Too bad she couldn’t have been more open minded
I have been to Canada only once before! When I was super young though. Like maybe 5, so I don’t really remember anything except I bought this toy that was a scuba diver that could swim in water LOL
And omg yes for sure! I’d love to meet you and your friend :))))))
What’s your name?
Q:Haha I'm not surprised you thought we were young! This whole situation makes me feel like I've been thrown back into high school. I actually froze a couple of times during my conversation with her cause in my head I was like, "did you really just say that?". Growing older clearly doesn't mean you grow more mature. I'm from Toronto, Canada, but we can still be friends! You're a great person Tim!
Yeah LOL. I don’t know how you have the patience for her!
Ou, a Canadian! My mum was planning to come up to Boston and bring my siblings and I to Canada for a vacation before they start up school but we have no money LOL.
Wouldn’t it be awesome though cuz I coulda been like oh let’s meet up!
And YOU’re a great person!!!
Q:ya my parents won't let me get one :( i really want a dog!! what other pets do you want to get? your pets are lucky to have you!!
Omg your parents suck LOL
I had a few dogs before. My siblings want one right now but we live in an apartment and it may be okay now since its summer, but once school starts ill still be working and my siblings will be in school so there won’t be anyone to watch the dog :(
Once my dragon outgrows his tank, imma use it to keep aquatic turtles (my fav animal and first pet as a kid)
I also plan on getting an iguana when I get my own place, cuz they need like 8 foot tall enclosures
I also want a chinchilla
And more birds LOL
My dad likes his birds. We have zebra finches, canaries and Chinese button quail. But I want love birds and a conure maybe but I especially want an African Gray Parrot
I’m kind of the equivalent of a crazy cat lady but with animals in general LOL. I wish I could lived on a farm or owned a large piece of land so I can raise my animals :(((((((
Do you like reptiles and birds???
Q:Le video, Tim! We want more video updates from you!
Omg I know I’m so sorry I’ve just been so lazy LOL
And it’s been so hot ugh but okay imma have to do a 6 month update anyways
To the anon that wanted a video of my bearded dragon Boss eating:
My Instagram keeps crashing every time I try to upload the video!!!
Like everything goes fine right until it uploads ugh. I can upload pictures perfectly but not videos
Imma try to figure out what’s going on with it :(
Q:I think it's already been 2-3 months, so he's halfway there! I'm excited for him! Of course I don't mind :) My ignorant friend and I are 24, my FTM friend is 22. How old would you have guessed we were?
I’m excited for him too! :DD
I assumed you guys were like young-ish. My first thought was like my age 19-20ish but from how your ignorant friend acted, I thought like 16 LOL.
But you are super mature (of course, since you’re an adult) and know how to like approach a situation in the most civilised of manners rather than telling your friend she’s being insensitive or telling her to fuck off
Where are you from? I’m from Boston, MA.
If you lived near me we could so totally be real life friends LOL